The Language of Love
Have you paid any attention to the words you use every day?
The ones you say to yourself as well as to others?
Language is a key form of communication in our world. And the language we use is a big influencer in how it shapes us and our experiences.
Let me ask you… how does it feel when someone calls you stupid or worse? Does that stir anger, shame, or doubt? Do you feel strong or weak?
How about if someone comments on how beautiful you look today? What emotion comes up with that? Is it different than with the first question?
Words are energy and studies have been done to chart out and graphically show the vibration of words. They found that positive words have a larger/higher vibration than negative words. This was one of the proofs to why positive affirmations are effective.
Negative words create tension in the body. They drain the energy from us. Positive words bring an energy that will help you soar.
The mere act of changing your vocabulary and using words with higher vibrations can quickly and dramatically change your life in magical ways.
Here are a few quick tips.
Replace the word ‘but’ with ‘and’. When we use the word but it negates everything that you said before. People will only hear the part of your sentence after the but. So will you. It also carries an energy of compromising or settling for something.
Remove ‘try’ from your vocabulary. Try implies that you are not fully committed. You are on the fence. There is an implication that you will attempt it but you believe it won’t work. Instead, commit! Either you will do it or you won’t. Be clear in your mind. If it sounds like something you wish to experience then commit. If it doesn’t interest you then don’t. Try keeps the guilt in play. When you don’t want to do something be firm in your choice. It’s okay not to do it. By saying ‘try’ it keeps that thought going in your mind. It’s an unresolved choice. Resolve your choice and it’s either a yes or a no. Either choice is a good one for you!
Should is the penultimate judgement word. You should do this, you should do that…! Says who? Who knows better than me what I desire? And who am I to bring my judgement to others? Remove should from your everyday language. When you do use it, consider why you feel ‘the should’ is something for you to be considering? If it isn’t, stop it! If there is something you need to commit to, then do it!
Language is very powerful. It controls you in ways you are not aware of. Be conscious of the words you use and practice the Language of Love. It will change your life!
Join me for my workshop on the Language of Love and learn how to change your life.